Madeline, it's so good to read your words despite what you are sharing--actually, because of what you are sharing. I've always been drawn to your vulnerability, the depth and breadth of your heart. When Josiah was killed, I questioned if I was a mother anymore because he was my only child, the only one to ever call me mom, and he was gone. People assured and reassured me that I was still a mother, but their words fell flat with me. They seemed to be missing the point. So, as much as I am tempted to tell you that you aren't an orphan, I will not because I can hear that fact is very real right now and I'm so sorry for that.
What a beautiful human you are and what an incredible daughter to show up for both of your parents in the way that you did. My motherly heart is soothed by knowing that children like you still exist.
Sending you great big hugs and deepest condolences for the loss of your dad. Liz ❤️
Sending so much love to you, Madeline. I'm glad you got some sweet times with your Dad and saw his delight at your writing before he passed. I'm sending love as you navigate this difficult time.
Lots of love Madeline , so sorry that you have lost both your parents . It is lovely that your Dad was so proud of you and that you enjoyed zoom calls and made him so happy . Also that you took such good care of your mum. It’s hard , losing our loved ones , no matter the story, it is painful and difficult . My friend is 70 with grown up children and young grandchildren . She feels orphaned and it is a shock to her that she feels that way . I am glad she has shared that with me I feel a bit more aware . I will never be prepared , but I am glad she told me this , it will give me insight to how some people feel and maybe because I know I can comfort them more .
My heartfelt condolences, Madeline. I'm sending over some hugs.
Thank you so much, Victoria! I really appreciate it.
You're very welcome Madeline. I've also added a couple of your articles into an anthology I curated called Bereavement/Grief. I hope that's okay.
Madeline, it's so good to read your words despite what you are sharing--actually, because of what you are sharing. I've always been drawn to your vulnerability, the depth and breadth of your heart. When Josiah was killed, I questioned if I was a mother anymore because he was my only child, the only one to ever call me mom, and he was gone. People assured and reassured me that I was still a mother, but their words fell flat with me. They seemed to be missing the point. So, as much as I am tempted to tell you that you aren't an orphan, I will not because I can hear that fact is very real right now and I'm so sorry for that.
What a beautiful human you are and what an incredible daughter to show up for both of your parents in the way that you did. My motherly heart is soothed by knowing that children like you still exist.
Sending you great big hugs and deepest condolences for the loss of your dad. Liz ❤️
Sending so much love to you, Madeline. I'm glad you got some sweet times with your Dad and saw his delight at your writing before he passed. I'm sending love as you navigate this difficult time.
Lots of love Madeline , so sorry that you have lost both your parents . It is lovely that your Dad was so proud of you and that you enjoyed zoom calls and made him so happy . Also that you took such good care of your mum. It’s hard , losing our loved ones , no matter the story, it is painful and difficult . My friend is 70 with grown up children and young grandchildren . She feels orphaned and it is a shock to her that she feels that way . I am glad she has shared that with me I feel a bit more aware . I will never be prepared , but I am glad she told me this , it will give me insight to how some people feel and maybe because I know I can comfort them more .